How To Use A Vibrator During S*x - Healthy Mates Ideas

How To Use A Vibrator During S*x

There are few things sexier than a woman who knows what she likes in the bedroom. Confidence is a huge turn on, so have your partner sit where he can look but not touch, and then masturbate in front of your partner by putting your chosen toy to good use.

Don’t confine yourself to your clitoris or vagina, run the vibe all over your body, finding your erogenous zones and spend time on your breasts and nipples, stomach, inner thighs, and anywhere else you can reach. A tongue vibrator is the perfect toy to explore erogenous zones.

The Best Kind of Threesome

Many women ask the question ‘can I use a vibrator with my partner?’ and the answer is a resounding ‘yes!’ If your partner is lacking in confidence, be tactful when inviting this wonderful third party into the bed, but once you do you’ll both wonder why you didn’t do it sooner!

For intercourse with penetration, it’s no secret that relatively few women can achieve orgasm by penetration alone, so give the big ‘O’ a helping hand by using a vibe on your clitoris while your partner is inside you. Not only does it feel sensational to you, but they will be able to feel the vibrations which will add a whole new dimension to intercourse. Consider inviting a vulva vibrator for clitoral stimulation for a sensual ménage à trois.

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Did you know the stimulation of the labia can lead to more intense orgasms? This rounded-nose and flame-shaped clit vibrator extends the vibe from the clit nub to your intimate lips and bring you a unique sensorial experience. Get ready to melt…

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Have your Cake and Eat it Too

Oral sex is wonderful, we all know that. But it can be made even better if your partner uses a vibrator inside you while he stimulates your clitoris with his tongue (leaving your hands free to grip the headboard!). Men rarely have the opportunity to actually watch penetration (unless he’s a contortionist!) so visually this is a huge turn on for him, as well as for you.

One extra tip: as your partner’s ears will be very close to your favourite toy, make sure you pick a silent internal vibrator , that does not ruin the mood with some annoying drilling sound!

While vibrators are made primarily for women, men don’t have to miss out. A man’s perineum is incredibly sensitive, and having it stimulated with a vibrator at the same time as receiving oral sex will drive him crazy. Be creative, and show him how good it feels! Bullet vibrators are basically finger-shaped, and are a great option to enhance an intimate kiss with an intimate massage.

Playing Catch-Up

Faking an orgasm does no-one any favour, so don’t! If you don’t come during sex, let him finish what he started by using a G-spot vibrator on you. Having your partner do it means he’s still the one bringing you to a climax, so he won’t feel left out and you won’t feel cheated out of coming.

It’s Good to Talk…and Even Better to Listen

Busy lives mean that sometimes we have to rely on our phones (and no we don’t mean in vibration mode, although that does sound interesting!) so spice up a phone call by mutually masturbating. Hearing your partner coming is incredibly intimate, and using a vibrator works in more ways than one. Women generally get there a lot quicker using a sex toy, and the sound of it buzzing will immediately give your partner a picture in his mind, even more so if you have used a vibe together before.

Coming together on the phone can be as satisfying as coming together in person. Of course, it might not be convenient to talk on the phone, which is when a strategically timed picture message can come in handy! They say a picture paints a thousand words, so you can imagine the story running through his mind when he receives a photo of you and your vibe just before his big meeting!

Used as a complementary aid as opposed to the main event, a vibrator can be enjoyed by men as much as women. By introducing a vibrator, couples can add a whole new dimension to their lovemaking, and get a real buzz from doing so. Find the one for you with a fun quiz here!

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